So it's been a while.
Big news first. In the past month and a half, Teri dumped me, I shaved my head and I quit my job, in that order. Two of those events were pretty crushing losses, and I only consider the shaved head a marginal success. I hate to make the stereotypical "omg, I miss teh gf" post but... omg, y'know?
Went to the Silverstein/Stretch Arm Strong show on Wednesday, and it turned out my buddy David's band, In Dying Dreams, got invited to play the Metro last second on Thursday. So I went with them and scored my first ever all access pass. Unfortunately, this landmark moment was somewhat spoiled by the fact that it was for a Throwdown show (technically, it was for a Black Dahlia Murder show, but they dropped out at the last second, hence In Dying Dreams). But it was a good show, Agony Scene rocked hard and I got some awesome chili fries from the hot dog place across the street.
Just got back from seeing Running Scared with Kurtle, Charles and Marles. It was a really good movie, if not a bit half-baked. I don't think I buy Paul Walker as a made guy from Jersey, though.
February 25 2006, 23:04:29 UTC 6 years ago
Just relaying news
Not to rub lemon in your wounds (as I think your body wouldn't register the salt) but I figured since they are your friends as well as mine that I'd let you know that Holly and Richard are moving in together and there is very serious talk of the M word.February 27 2006, 23:21:05 UTC 6 years ago
I don't think there's much I can say in a LJ post without sounding trite, but I know the feeling. It's easy to feel ashamed of missing someone, but really it's kind of inhuman to be able to have a relationship end without pain. I kinda let my feelings run their course, if I feel like it I try to win them back, that always fails, but I often find that I feel like I did my best. My friend Tom said that it's ok to think about what went wrong in your relationship only as long as you come up with 2-3 lessons learned per hour of thinking, I find that to be a pretty good rule. Otherwise, try to spend time with people who understand, find things to think about, read a self-help/philosophy book.